Premarital Counselling

Build a Strong, Healthy & Happy Married Life from the Start

Marriage is one of the most important decisions of life. It is not just about love, rituals, or social commitment — it is about emotional compatibility, communication, expectations, sexual understanding, family adjustment, financial planning, and lifelong partnership.

Yet, most couples enter marriage without any preparation, assuming that everything will fall into place on its own. The reality is different. Many marital problems start before marriage — but they show up after marriage.

At City Sex Counselling & Therapy Center, guided by Dr. Ambekar M S (MD, MSD) with 40+ years of experience, we help couples enter marriage with clarity, confidence, emotional maturity, and realistic expectations.

Premarital counselling is not about finding faults — it is about understanding each other deeply and building a successful marriage.

What is Premarital Counselling?

Premarital counselling is a structured professional process where couples (or individuals planning marriage) understand important aspects of married life before getting married.

It covers areas such as:

• Emotional compatibility
• Communication styles
• Sexual understanding
• Expectations from marriage
• Family and in-law adjustment
• Financial mindset
• Conflict resolution
• Mental health awareness
• Personal boundaries
• Future planning

Counselling prepares the relationship — just like medical tests prepare the body.

Why Premarital Counselling is Extremely Important Today

Modern marriages face challenges that earlier generations did not. Work pressure, social media influence, financial stress, and poor communication skills have increased marital conflicts.

Common reasons marriages struggle:

• Lack of communication
• Unrealistic expectations
• Sexual incompatibility
• Ego clashes
• Family interference
• Financial disagreements
• Emotional neglect
• Past unresolved issues
• Mental health concerns
• Different values & priorities

Premarital counselling does not weaken relationships — it strengthens them.

Who Should Take Premarital Counselling?

Premarital counselling is helpful for:

• Couples planning love marriage
• Couples in arranged marriage
• Engaged couples
• Individuals with past relationship trauma
• Second marriage planning
• Intercaste or interfaith marriages
• Long-distance couples
• Couples with age gap
• Couples facing family pressure
• Individuals with anxiety or fear about marriage
• People who feel confused or unsure about marriage

Even if you feel “everything is fine,” premarital counselling helps you keep it fine.

Common Issues Couples Face Without Premarital Counselling

Many couples come to us after marriage saying:

• “We didn’t know expectations would be so different”
• “We never discussed sex properly”
• “Family pressure became unbearable”
• “We fight over small things”
• “Communication has broken down”
• “We are emotionally disconnected”
• “I feel misunderstood”

These issues don’t appear suddenly — they develop slowly due to lack of preparation, clarity, and awareness.

Premarital counselling acts as prevention, not damage control.

Emotional Compatibility and Understanding

Love alone is not enough for marriage. Emotional compatibility determines how well two people handle stress, disappointment, joy, anger, and responsibilities together.

In counselling, we help couples understand:

• Emotional needs of each other
• Ways of expressing love and care
• How each partner handles stress
• Emotional triggers
• Attachment styles
• Expectations of emotional support

This understanding helps prevent misunderstandings and emotional distance later in marriage.

Sexual Understanding and Intimacy Education

Sexual incompatibility is one of the most unspoken yet serious causes of marital stress. Many individuals enter marriage with fear, misinformation, unrealistic expectations, anxiety, guilt, or past negative experiences.

At City Sex Counselling & Therapy Center, sexual health is handled professionally, respectfully, and with complete confidentiality.

We address:

• Sexual expectations
• Myths and misconceptions
• First-night anxiety
• Libido differences
• Emotional intimacy
• Consent and comfort
• Sexual health awareness
• Performance anxiety

Healthy sexual understanding strengthens emotional bonding and reduces marital frustration.

Financial Understanding and Responsibility

Money issues are one of the leading causes of marital conflicts. Differences in spending habits, saving mindset, and financial expectations often remain unspoken before marriage.

In counselling, we help couples discuss:

• Income expectations
• Spending habits
• Saving goals
• Financial responsibilities
• Future planning
• Lifestyle expectations
• Financial transparency

Clear financial understanding prevents future stress and arguments.

Past Experiences, Trauma & Emotional Baggage

Many individuals carry unresolved emotional pain from past relationships, childhood experiences, family conflicts, rejection, abuse, or failed engagements. If left unaddressed, these issues can affect married life.

Premarital counselling helps individuals:

• Heal past wounds
• Build emotional maturity
• Reduce fear of commitment
• Avoid repeating unhealthy patterns
• Enter marriage with clarity

Healing before marriage leads to healthier relationships after marriage.

Mental Health Awareness Before Marriage

Mental health is often ignored in marriage discussions. Conditions such as anxiety, depression, mood disorders, or excessive stress can affect married life if not understood early.

Counselling creates awareness about:

• Emotional well-being
• Stress management
• Mental health support
• Understanding a partner’s mental health
• Seeking help without stigma

A mentally healthy couple builds a stronger and more stable relationship.

Our Premarital Counselling Process

At City Sex Counselling & Therapy Center, our premarital counselling process is structured, respectful, and personalized to meet each couple’s unique needs.

• Initial Assessment: Understanding individual personalities, concerns, expectations, and fears
• Individual Sessions (If Needed): Safe space to express personal concerns privately
• Couple Sessions: Guided and open discussions on important marital topics
• Compatibility & Expectation Mapping: Identifying strengths, differences, and areas needing adjustment
• Skill Building: Communication, conflict resolution, emotional intelligence, and intimacy skills
• Guidance & Clarity: Couples leave with confidence and readiness for marriage

The goal is not just preparation — it is long-term marital success.

Why Choose City Sex Counselling & Therapy Center for Premarital Counselling?

• 40+ Years of Experience: Dr. Ambekar M S has guided thousands of couples successfully
• Non-Judgmental & Confidential Environment: Every discussion remains private and respectful
• Scientific, Practical & Indian-Context Approach: Understanding cultural, social, and family realities
• Sexual Health Expertise: Rare combination of marital counselling and sexual health expertise
• Multiple Locations Across Maharashtra: Mumbai, Nashik, Aurangabad, Ahmednagar, Malegaon
• Customized Counselling: Every couple is different — sessions are tailored accordingly

Trusted guidance, real solutions, and compassionate care under one roof.

Common Myths About Premarital Counselling

• “Only couples with problems need counselling”
  Truth: Counselling prevents problems before they start.
• “Love is enough”
  Truth: Love needs understanding, communication, and emotional maturity.
• “Counselling means something is wrong”
  Truth: Counselling means you care about your future together.
• “We already know each other”
  Truth: Marriage reveals new roles, responsibilities, and expectations.

Premarital counselling is a sign of strength, not weakness.

When Should You Start Premarital Counselling?

• Before engagement
• After engagement
• A few months before marriage
• Even weeks before marriage

Earlier is always better — but it is never too late to begin.

Start Your Marriage Journey with Clarity & Confidence

Marriage should be a source of happiness, growth, and emotional safety — not confusion or stress. Premarital counselling helps you enter this new phase of life prepared, confident, and united.

If you are planning marriage and want a strong foundation:

📞 Call us now for a premarital counselling appointment:
9823086670 or 9326832281

Visit City Sex Counselling & Therapy Center at:
Mumbai, Nashik, Aurangabad, Ahmednagar, Malegaon
or consult from anywhere in Maharashtra.

A successful marriage begins before the wedding — and we are here to help you build it right.